It's a season of open letters and singer Ciara has
written one to bloggers. Lol. She's sick to death of
negative bloggers and comments and pens an open
letter urging people to stop...
Ciara writes on her personal blog,
I used to sometimes like visiting some of the blog
sites to see what new things are happening in the
world! Things like cool photos, current events,
etc. But nowadays it seems like there's a
competition with sites on "Who Can Tear
Someone Down the Most." The stories are going
from cool and creative to pure drama. Even the
comment sections are beginning to get out of
control and people are using the platforms to
exercise a false sense of power.
People sure do have a lot of courage when they
are anonymous. It's like a "Who Can Say the
Nastiest Comment Game." I click onto some of
the comments from something as fun as an
Instagram post that you're sharing with your fans,
and a person finds a way to turn a positive post
into a negative. I think to myself, "I could pick this
person apart so bad but what for? Why act ugly
like them?" It honestly takes the fun out of it
when people seem so miserable.
Or at least that's how I view someone wasting
their energy to tear someone down, just plain
miserable. They could be using that to do
something much more productive. If only they
could channel their energy towards positivity, it
could make a difference in their own life as well
as influence others. It's kind of scary for the kids
coming up, because even if a parent doesn't
allow their kids to have blog site access at home,
they may still have access at school or other
places. It's now almost impossible to protect your
kids from the vile things people say on blog sites
today, and it's even worse when kids hear hurtful
things about themselves, their parents or other
family members. In some cases kids have even
resorted to suicide due to "cyber-bullying."
My questions to people creating slander about
people are:
What stops you from thinking twice about trying
to defame someone? What are you trying to gain?
Words are powerful. You could say the wrong
thing about someone, famous or not, on the
wrong day and that could cost them their life
because they're at a weak point. Believe it or not,
you could also be encouraging them to give up on
their life or whatever the situation is, when they
shouldn't. Or what about a story that causes
unnecessary drama stemming from completely
false information? It's just flat out wrong and sad.
I say to myself, I thank God for making me
strong, because I've always been able to use the
negativity as motivation, and it makes me
stronger.
But I don't just think about myself in this, I think
about others that I see getting thrashed and think
it's just so wrong. It's very sad that people just
want to tear people down so bad just to see them
unhappy. It's unbelievable how far people are
willing to go to get people to come to their site.
I say this to say....
Dear Blogger,
It's never worth it in the end when you sell
your soul for a quick dollar, by creating bad
stories about people. At some point, it will
all reverse on you and you'll end up
regretting all the trash you wrote or said
about people.
The universal friend "Karma" has
demonstrated this over and over again. I
strongly encourage you to project more
positivity into the universe. If Social Media
is a world that's growing more massive by
the day, why not use it to shed light??
Otherwise, you are merely contaminating
our universe.
What about your family and kids?? Do you
think about them?? You're definitely creating
a harmful and volatile environment where
they must learn to live. It's almost like you
are cursing future generations with your
bad energy.
Not to mention...Your "Personal Karma"??...
Forget about it!
You better start doing some serious praying
and rebuking, cause only The Lord
knows!...:)
I sure do miss the good ol days when the focus
was about the pure creativity of being an artist.
Back then there was still some mystery. Social
Media Is Beginning To Take Away The
Specialness of What That Was, and Is.
Now, Off Blogs. Peaceful Mind. Living In My
Happiness. Creativity Only.
Love, C
written one to bloggers. Lol. She's sick to death of
negative bloggers and comments and pens an open
letter urging people to stop...
Ciara writes on her personal blog,
I used to sometimes like visiting some of the blog
sites to see what new things are happening in the
world! Things like cool photos, current events,
etc. But nowadays it seems like there's a
competition with sites on "Who Can Tear
Someone Down the Most." The stories are going
from cool and creative to pure drama. Even the
comment sections are beginning to get out of
control and people are using the platforms to
exercise a false sense of power.
People sure do have a lot of courage when they
are anonymous. It's like a "Who Can Say the
Nastiest Comment Game." I click onto some of
the comments from something as fun as an
Instagram post that you're sharing with your fans,
and a person finds a way to turn a positive post
into a negative. I think to myself, "I could pick this
person apart so bad but what for? Why act ugly
like them?" It honestly takes the fun out of it
when people seem so miserable.
Or at least that's how I view someone wasting
their energy to tear someone down, just plain
miserable. They could be using that to do
something much more productive. If only they
could channel their energy towards positivity, it
could make a difference in their own life as well
as influence others. It's kind of scary for the kids
coming up, because even if a parent doesn't
allow their kids to have blog site access at home,
they may still have access at school or other
places. It's now almost impossible to protect your
kids from the vile things people say on blog sites
today, and it's even worse when kids hear hurtful
things about themselves, their parents or other
family members. In some cases kids have even
resorted to suicide due to "cyber-bullying."
My questions to people creating slander about
people are:
What stops you from thinking twice about trying
to defame someone? What are you trying to gain?
Words are powerful. You could say the wrong
thing about someone, famous or not, on the
wrong day and that could cost them their life
because they're at a weak point. Believe it or not,
you could also be encouraging them to give up on
their life or whatever the situation is, when they
shouldn't. Or what about a story that causes
unnecessary drama stemming from completely
false information? It's just flat out wrong and sad.
I say to myself, I thank God for making me
strong, because I've always been able to use the
negativity as motivation, and it makes me
stronger.
But I don't just think about myself in this, I think
about others that I see getting thrashed and think
it's just so wrong. It's very sad that people just
want to tear people down so bad just to see them
unhappy. It's unbelievable how far people are
willing to go to get people to come to their site.
I say this to say....
Dear Blogger,
It's never worth it in the end when you sell
your soul for a quick dollar, by creating bad
stories about people. At some point, it will
all reverse on you and you'll end up
regretting all the trash you wrote or said
about people.
The universal friend "Karma" has
demonstrated this over and over again. I
strongly encourage you to project more
positivity into the universe. If Social Media
is a world that's growing more massive by
the day, why not use it to shed light??
Otherwise, you are merely contaminating
our universe.
What about your family and kids?? Do you
think about them?? You're definitely creating
a harmful and volatile environment where
they must learn to live. It's almost like you
are cursing future generations with your
bad energy.
Not to mention...Your "Personal Karma"??...
Forget about it!
You better start doing some serious praying
and rebuking, cause only The Lord
knows!...:)
I sure do miss the good ol days when the focus
was about the pure creativity of being an artist.
Back then there was still some mystery. Social
Media Is Beginning To Take Away The
Specialness of What That Was, and Is.
Now, Off Blogs. Peaceful Mind. Living In My
Happiness. Creativity Only.
Love, C
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